There are moments in life when you simply need to remind yourself that you are enough. In order to do that, you have to have enough self confidence to come up with the words that are both comforting and inspiring.

I’ve been told that nothing is impossible, and certain things aren’t meant for me. I’ve been told to follow my heart, and I’ve been told to always be mindful of others. And I’ve been told to say what I really want move in that direction, but move with caution. I’ve been told many conflicting things, but I have out that the most important words come from within. What I tell myself when I am not sure of the next step, or when I am scared to truly articulate my thoughts into actions. I tell myself to move, just move, take a step, and move. Be bold.

Forget your failures and mistakes because the lesson is over. Sometimes we have to fail over and over until our failures are no longer setbacks; they simply push us closer to our goals.

Ask yourself…what are my goals and how long will I pursue them?

It took me many years to invest in me and appreciate my own value. But once I knew my own worth there were no more excuses. I don’t have many profound words of wisdom or a wonderful magic toolbox to fix every unforeseeable problem.

But if I could sit with my 19 year old self, I would tell her how special she is and that there is no need to be so unsure. I would tell her to just be selfish.

Be freaking selfish, know your worth and love yourself. Wait for no one to validate you just get your own stamp of approval.  Stop hesitating and move boldly towards your goals. The world is your drawing board so dream big, hold tight to your dreams and pursue your passions with unwavering focus and perseverance.

Most importantly I would tell her,

“Some things aren’t that serious. Just smile!”